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Singles Realize Having Positive Expectations Is a Good Idea for Dating

For one, Nobody can say I’m terribly comfortable being bored with most men (who isn’t?) and be 100% truthful. But, I’m not unhappy in that way, either. I only mention it on the blogosphere as an ear-catching personal tidbit foreshadowing what I will shortly unravel!

A week ago today yours truly met for coffee with Sandy, thinking of buying a membership to Dallas Personals site. Now, I write to each of you as a happy member of the singles network. No kidding, I am. I like it! If you’ve been paying attention, perhaps you’re thinkin’, “You got some ’splainin to do, Lucy!”

Here’s how it went down, I saw this Great Expectations Dating site and felt encouraged. They’re for the honest singles who think dating isn’t a game.

Because in all honesty I’d never enjoyed or even tolerated the ridiculous nightlife ritual serial daters (ie: everyone I know) so aptly entitled “dating.” I heard it more than you know. Every night readers pester, “Are you two serious yet?” and “Please tell me you two are dating.”

“Ugh, and double ugh.” I reply, without missing a beat. “Take a look around, I’m not missing much.”

“Don’t be silly,” they deadpan. “That’s just an excuse for your cynicism.”

Thankfully, that’s my best friend (she’s the best) :-P Sandy Holland. She pours the best ideas directly to my core to set me straight. Caring souls I depend on to offer perspective. She made a good point, so I signed up.

Returning to the theme of this blog entry. As I picked from more than three hundred combinations of outfits for my first date with Great Expectations, something occurred to me that was quite true. Over the last year, I hadn’t held any figurative great expectations for dating in the fun-filled journey of being alive. It’s good to be single, specifically if you use the freedom to date. Having great expectations makes a difference for a caring soul.

<3, Denise Davis

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